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Women need to tattoo this on their brains. Women get angry with men for remaining emotionless and unattached. There is nothing wrong with a woman having casual sex. Men get angry with women for developing feelings when they told their sexual partner from the START that the relationship was not going anywhere.
If you have a tendency to jump into sex quickly, like before you have gone out on at least actual dates with someone, make a vow to STOP doing that. If you do not want your love life to be one long string of hookups and one-night stands, HOLD OUT for someone who tells you he is Winterville GA bi horney housewifes for love and open to exploring a relationship with YOU.
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Posts Sex Lisa Women seeking hot sex James City July 25, Dating Lisa Shield July 25, You deserve to have it all—wild, passionate sex AND a lifelong commitment—but to have it, YOU have to be willing to raise YOUR bar and keep it there until you find a man who measures up. But because they are not under the influence of oxytocin, men can SEPARATE the emotional and physical more easily, allowing them to have recreational sex without getting easily attached.
Of course, they do.
I am not saying that men never connect the physical and the emotional when it comes to sex. For that reason, sex is BOTH an emotional and a physical experience for most women.
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Do not tell yourself that his actions are showing you that he really cares about you.